Make an impression when you enter into a room. Someone should notice you have just walked in. It's not necessary how well you look or the clothes you wear, but the energy that flows from within. Positve energy is always welcomed, it feels the atmosphere with warmth. People should be glad you showed up. It's better to be seen, than heard.
Can you speak like a mouse, where silence isn't interrupted. Don't tarnish the gold, so many make reference too.